First two were not intentional

First two babies, I wasn’t tracking and was not intentional about getting pregnant or not getting pregnant. My friends always joked because during that time frame my husband and I only had sex like once or twice a month and some how got pregnant! Now we are trying for our third and final child, and wow it’s a lot of work! Like what the heck how did I even get pregnant the first two times! We have two beautiful boys and I’ve always dreamed of having a baby girl. Trying to track everything to hopefully sway the gender towards a girl. A healthy baby regardless is a blessing though. Has anyone had any luck with gender swaying?!