So we're living with my mother in law, splitting the bills and saving for a place big enough for us and 4 kids..

My problem is this place NEVER feels like home, my mother in law is constantly picking apart everything me or my kids do., she can always point out things that needs to be done but she won't lift a finger to do anything.

I spend my days taking care of the kids, cleaning the house, doing laundry for 6 people, 4 under 12, so there's a lot left up to me and the one day I don't cook, she starts with "what are you feeding your husband?" "why didn't you cook?" "You know he has to eat right?" never asking whether the kids eat or not becuz she acts like her son is her responsibility, even tho he's grown with a wife and kids.

I try not to take her seriously but it's beginning to really be a pain in my ass, especially lately...she suddenly says there's too much clutter in the kitchen and the only things that seems to be going are things I have, like cups for my kids, bowls I use to store food and kitchen appliances...she throws things away without even bothering with whether I want them or not..my husband says I should talk to her, I'm just tired of talking and can't wait to leave.