Am I overreacting??

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After 3 m/c, 5 rounds of clomid, and 2 failed iuis. My SO has been tested 4 times and has been very low almost every time. Doctor recommended fertility vitamins. Hes not taking them daily as he should. Don't I have a right to be upset? They did give him a boost after the first month he tried them.

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I think you absolutely have the right to be upset. As I have to frequently remind my husband, this is a team effort! We may be the ones to do the "heavy lifting" but our partners need to support us every step of the way. You're not asking a lot. Sorry,  I'm completely angry on your behalf.

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I would be furious... You are taking chlomid, dealing with everything that comes with iui, tracking, testing, I'm sure you are taking prenatal and supllements. You are going above and beyond for this child. The least he can do is takes damn vitamin if the doctor says he should 😤 if it is about remembering have him take it before bed and have it on the counter in the bathroom where he brushes his teeth. Or set an alarm in his phone. Not to mention iui is expensive so if it fails because of his sperm and it could be helped by the vitamin then that is just throwing away money. I'm sorry you are dealing with this. Good luck!

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No, you’re def not overreacting...I’d lose my mind if that were my husband. It’s 50/50 in this.... they’re sperm is as much a contributing factor to this as your egg is.... not cool.

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