Getting baby to sleep helllppp 😖😖

Hello ladies I’m looking for advice on how to get my little one to self soothe and sleep on her own. During the day she has no problem getting to sleep and usually sleeps for a really long time. It’s the night time that’s killing me. She wakes at least every two hours. I breastfeed and make sure to feed her off both. I even started to change her diaper before she eats so the coldness from the wipe wouldn’t wake her yet here I am trying to get her to go back to bed. She hates pacifiers I’ve tried everything under the sun. She’s not one who likes to be swaddled either. I’m going mad from lack of sleep. I also have a toddler so it’s hard to sleep durning the day. Please if anyone has any tips I would love to know. She will be two months on the 14th and I want to figure this out now before it’s to late