Help/advice

Ok so we moved a week ago and I am debating changing health care. We toured the birthing center near our new home. I'm 36 weeks. My original plan was to stay with family and have baby over where I have care currently. But there is not a room for me to stay in I'd be sleeping in the living room with my two year old son I also would be away from my SO for 4 or more weeks. The hospital near our home is 15 mins away. It would take my mom or my SOs two to three hours to get here to watch my son while I give birth. I do not know what to do at this point. At the new hospital I would have a male doctor. I'm use to midwives gave birth to my son with the same midwives that are caring for me now. What would you do?