Did moving in together strain your relationship?

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Considering shacking up with SO. We have discussed money, reasons why we want to move in together, future vision etc and are on the same page. 
The sticking point is timing and sometimes our fights blow up way out of proportion. 
I’m a super keen to move in together but now I’m second guessing myself and my whole relationship. (I’m super risk adverse too) 
How did the transition to moving in together go for you? Was the strain too much and you parted ways? Did you rise above and are now blissfully happy? Do you think you rushed it or wish you had done it sooner? What were the signs you guys WEREN’T ready and did you take the plunge anyway? 
Help!

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We were the together nearly 6 years before we moved in together. There were zero surprises. Sometimes I think I know him better than myself. If you have any doubts then wait. Work on your relationship first.

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It really depends on how you both live. I have lived with one man previously and though we loved each other he was basically a man child. He expected me to cook and clean and do everything. If you have a man who already does his own cleaning and chores it’s a plus. Even if you feel like you’d be okay with all that it gets frustrating doing everything alone. Talk with him and set boundaries now. And always keep money separately so you don’t feel trapped if it doesn’t work out!

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It’s a next step to a serious relationship and things will be hard, very hard but if you guys love each other, everything will workout. :)

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I moved in with my boyfriend after only dating for 5 months because my mom kicked me out and my boyfriend was like “fine she’s coming with me”, so in less than 2 hours all my stuff was packed and we were on our way to his house (technically his parents house). It was stressful in the beginning because I was the only one working and for some reason our sex life changed drastically, sex went from nearly everyday to once a month. But we’re like two peas in a pod now, we’re still together 4 years later with a little one on the way 💕. There were days I hated coming home in the beginning but the key is COMMUNICATION and COMPROMISING. Always always always make sure to express how you feel or what’s on your mind, remember stay calm and listen to his concerns too. 🙂

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It was smooth/natural for us but then again we don’t really have blow-out fights. You’ll know if you’re ready

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What do you mean by the sticking point is timing? Does one of you want to move in together sooner than the other? 
I think it depends on where in your life you are too (ie in college, out of college looking for a job, in your career both able to take care yourselves financially).
I started living w my now husband about a year into our relationship, we bought a house together knowing we wanted to marry each other. It’s been great. Def learning and adjusting to each other’s living habits, but with the right person, it’s soo worth it. And I def think it’s important if you plan to get married.

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It takes a little bit of time to get used to. You see every little thing they do, every annoying habit. And it just takes some time. My hubby and I have live together 2+ years and just last month he went to training for a week. When he came back we still had a bit of friction as we both settled into being mindful of each other. Basically you have to be ready to make changes for the other person. But also to be able to celebrate all the amazing things that happen too. You get to come home to them and celebrate accomplishments and he's also there if you've had a bad day. Every night he'll be there to cuddle until you fall asleep. Watch movies, cook meals, and have pillow fights. Holidays are spent together more and traditions are started. It's an amazing feeling knowing you have someone you love to come home to.

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We moved in together before we started dating as he gave me a place to stay when i got out of a 4 yr relationship 2 states away from anybody else i knew. It was great right away. He knew how to take care of himself so there was no babysitting or cleaning up after him. I got on my feet again and started renting my own house. We missed each other so much we ended up still doing sleep overs anyway. Now were married expecting our first. 
I think its very positive and exciting, as long as your living styles and personalities line up. But if youre serious about this relationship, it is the next step💁

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It’s the next step to a serious relationship. I was excited. Couldn’t have it any other way.

Did moving in together strain your relationship?

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