Have you ever gotten pregnant after you "relaxed"?

I always get annoyed with people who tell me I should just "relax and it will happen", when it comes to getting pregnant. But I can honestly say I am the most relaxed I've been in my 3 and a half years of trying to get pregnant. I am eligible for a free ivf cycle due to govt and work insurance, and my husband FINALLY, after a delay of 7 months🙄, did his simple blood test (he has a severe fear of needles), so I feel an unbelievable sense of relief, that we are now officially on the waiting list for ivf. It is an 8-18 month waiting list (I live in Canada), but for the first time in years, I feel a sense of hope, and like things are really moving forward!😁😅