Boyfriend paying for porn?

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So my boyfriend leaves his email and google logged in on my ipad in case we need to get on them when we’re out (he has no data). So sometimes i go through to look at how much he’s spending (i know it’s bad i shouldn’t)...
However, i came across a dropbox email saying “____ has updated the folder Kinky”
So i immediately did some digging to find out who this girl is and i find her on twitter... she has little followers but sells premium snapchat videos and dropbox....
Would you be mad? I feel like it’s different to free porn thousands can watch.
Also it’s just a girl selling videos of herself and i’m pretty sure if you can pay you can make requests.

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That would be way too personal, he can interact with this girl which = cheating in my book

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Who the heck is dumb enough to pay for porn

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Paying for porn is the responsible way to consume the media. This is work that people are doing! It’s their living! It doesn’t exist for the sole purpose of getting you off; it was made so someone could pay the bills. It’s great when it does get you off, though! And that’s why you should pay for it: someone did work to create this and you liked it. So pay them for their work. 
Here’s a better explanation: https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/paying-for-porn/ I highly recommend reading this.

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I’m all for watching porn, it doesn’t bother me at all. I think that people should pay for the porn that they consume, unless the site provides (through ads or whatever) a way for the people performing the actual sex work to get paid. After all, that is how they’re making a living. HOWEVER, something more intimate like what you’ve described, and things like going onto webcam sites where there’s more of an opportunity to interact with the person/build some sort of a connection should be entirely off limits to people in relationships. Pre recorded porn videos are a bit less personal, but being able to directly speak to someone and make particular requests to fulfill fantasies is a lot different. I would be upset too.

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not okay at all. there’s SO much free porn out there. him using his money is too far and too personal.

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Sounds like he’s cheating

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I don't like the idea either there's so much ways to get porn for free with today's technology I mean really.  And  why do you have to pay especially when you have it at home you can make your own video for free

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I know this isn’t the case for everyone but I know a couple girls with premium snapchats and you can pay for a “meet up” 😶

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That’s too far for me, my so added pornstars on Snapchat and I got livid, porn is fine but adding them on sc is too far for me

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I say not ok cause do you know how many free porn sites they are. No one should pay for porn.