I just packed my bags and left - Any advice would be helpful

Im 19 years old and while i dont want to go into detail about what happened, i just packed my bags and left my home, where i lives with my father and my older sister. Im very sad and everything seems so hard right now. I just couldn’t stay there anymore and in the midst of an argument with my father i packed my bags after thinking about i for a little bit too. I live in Southern California and my plan is to move and fly to new jersey to live with my mom and grandparents, who would welcomingly have me. He immediately ended my car insurance, my cellular data and anything else. I dont know if my decision was right or wrong, but i did need space and need to figure out things on my own and i know its gonna be hard. Hopefully my job can let me transfer, i can sell my car, and i can buy a plane ticket within 2 days. Im at my close friends house right now and i dont want to stay longer than a day here.. i dont know what to do. I cant believe this is real and i keep having these waves of tears. I could write way more but im just gonna be vague and say this..

Has anyone gone through a similar situation?

Im just really upset thinking about everything and don’t want to hurt anybody. But i know some things i said to him were hurtful. I dont even know i just really hate myself right now and feel lost

Adding: yes the car is in my name