Should I get fingered?

I’m 17 and I want to have sex with my boyfriend. I’m a virgin also. I want him to finger me to get me lose but my vagina is really tight. I can’t even finger myself because of how tight it is. Should I get live and how much it should it get? Also this is random but what are some condoms talk would recommend?

Thanks, and please don’t be rude to me in the comments