First month TTC,mixed feelings

In the middle of my fertile week I learned a friend miscarried at 6 weeks after miraculously conceiving just before having her tubes completely removed 💔. A week later my best friend found out she was pregnant only to suffer a chemical loss a few days later. Tomorrow I will be 11dpo and I want to be successful but I don't want to hurt my friends and I now I'm terrified to miscarry.

But since it's our first month trying and I'm 32 we probably don't have anything to worry about.