So I need some advice and I’m trying to figure out if I’m over reacting or have a right to be upset with my husband I am 24 and he’s 26. So we just go marrie dthis year in June after 9 years together and it’s like we fight every other day given we fought a bit before this but not as bad as now. Well today we have a fight because I went to the hospital and I was there since 3:30 so they said I had like three people in front of me after waiting for 4 hours so it start to rain and there’s lightning coming down so I call my husband and ask him to come get me he says no and I say why and he says cause he doesn’t feel like it so I say send me an Uber and he has an attitude like I’m just disturbing him from something so important so he send the Uber and when I get here he’s playing this stupid video game and tells me you need to get a job and I say huh cause I didn’t hear him correctly he repeats you need to get a job with yo lazy ass. Now I just ended my six year military contract with the army on the 16th of September and I’m taking a little hiatus from the whole job thing being that the va takes care of me now and he’s just so rude like when I was in the service and we’d go out and people would say thank you for your service he’d tell them she hasn’t done anything and I’d look at him like you don’t know what I’ve done and it’s annoying because he’s being unfair and acting like I’m just lazy when I’m not I’m just relaxing am I being overly dramatic by not wanting to talk to him or am I in the right for treating him like this?