Is this fair?

Question

So my partners son will come down every fortnightly and my partner will shout at my little girl when she’s naughty but when he’s son does the EXACT SAME THING, he’ll tell him no nicely? Like do I have a right to pissed off? It’s the same rule for every child 🙄😡

Answer

He probably doesn't want to be the "mean parent" since he only has him a few days a month, but you're right. He should treat them the same. Your child will feel the difference soon if she hasn't already and will create an issue sooner or later.

Answer

Definitely talk to him about it.

Answer

Explain to him the difference and let him know if he can’t treat them fairly then he doesn’t need to discipline your child. Lack of time in his own child’s life isn’t an excuse to treat your kid unfairly, because his child will see the differences and act out on it.

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