Don't know what to do or how to deal

Husband and I were goofing around and sometimes it gets a little out of hand and one if us accidentally flies at the other too fast or whatever, but he was tickling me and had his bowl of soup in his other hand and I kicked him, making him drop a little on himself and he gets super pissed and dumps the whole thing on me. I love him but sometimes his temper really freaks me out.