lately my boyfriend and i have been fighting so bad. he went to college back in august and since then i’ve been learning how to be alone. it’s hard. we fight all the time now, even though he disagrees. it always starts out with me being upset with not talking much, he then gets upset that i’m always telling him what he does wrong, and then from there we blow up and argue and fight. i cry, we each go at each other like we hate one another, and then it calms.

what do i do? we are fighting so hard to stay together while we are actually fighting and it’s just so tough. please tell me advice.