Help y'all!

Hey y'all! I'm having a little trouble 'round here. My man and I started having sex in November of 2017 and rarely engage in it due to the amount of pain I experience. It just feels like a stabbing, shooting pain and I often bleed. I went to the gyno, and she told me there's no sign of endometriosis, PCOS, STDs...but it's such an inconvenience. I couldn't even have my gyno use the speculum because it hurt so bad. I also have horrible anxiety, and childhood trauma although it was never physical or sexual abuse. Gyno said the way I am down there almost looks like I've been a victim of sexual assault. It's just so strange...I love my boyfriend, am so comfortable with him, and am always in the mood when we have sex it just doesn't work...any advice?