Should my SO be in the Dog House?

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He commented on social media on a photo of our local coffee girl's post.  Which headlined summer with  thick thighs chafing is no joke. With Luigi  blanket between her legs. He commented. ......well Luigi looks happy;).....
Granted i was looking on his phone while he was in the store. I'm slightly guilty for trolling but still is he in the wrong? Or me?

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It's a joke. Guys say stuff and don't even understand why we'd read so much into it.

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Just tell him that's a slightly creepy thing to say. I wouldn't make a big deal unless it happens again. Sometimes people don't know when they're being creepy.

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Guys say and think stupid things! Don't worry about it! We have all had some experience  like this before.

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I'd be pissed. Couch for him massaged feet for me.

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I'd let him know that's not okay real quick. Does he want you commenting something like that on a guys pic?

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My question is, for yall- is that not okay? Every couple is different. That wouldn't be okay in MY marriage but some other people would find it harmless. If it's already established and UNDERSTOOD that him making a comment like that would piss you off then NO it's not okay. If that's something that has never been clarified between you two, clarify it NOW. Do it calmly and be civil and be honest about looking through the phone and why you looked. In the beginning when my now husband and I were dating I had to make it known and vice versa what's not cool to me and I also made it crystal clear that I DO NOT repeat myself so shady behavior means your ass will be single. We had big hurdles to cross in the beginning when dating but now that we are married and have a child..there are zero grey areas of what's okay and what's not. Don't doghouse him but be very clear with him and you both need to define (if you haven't already) what's acceptable and what isn't

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I would be pissed. It's about respect. Talk to him and tell him you are not comfortable with that. My husband used to like half naked woman on Facebook. I put a end to that. It's about respect not insecurity. I feel secure in my marriage but that doesn't mean he can go out and do whatever the heck he wants and act single.

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You wouldn't of had to look for it if he wasn't being weird right? You listened to your gut and saw th e truth that you were correct. It's all on him as Much as he's gonna turn it around on you.

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Oh god. It fricken social media... You sound like a 15 yr old

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kinda cause if the thing was between her legs it meant he looked down there

Should my SO be in the Dog House?

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