9dpo on 13th cycle

9dpo & feeling so discouraged.. my temps have had a steady increase since O, with a dip today of 0.08 but I’m not counting today’s as reliable because my little one was up a lot last night so she slept in our bed from 2am onwards & it made me stir a few times, & it was 30 minutes after I normally test (I slept through my alarm😂).

With my first, I fell unexpectedly & didn’t know I was pregnant until I was nearly 3 months gone (10+6) so had all the signs by then. I just don’t feel pregnant whatsoever. I’ve had cramps from 6-8dpo, but I cramp on & off before AF anyway, my cervix is medium & super soft but I don’t think it’s a reliable way to determine pregnancy. My CM was pretty much dry from 5-8dpo with it being creamy today. I have backache but I always do. But my boobs are fine, I don’t feel bloated or anything..

Anyone want to help a girl out & get me out this mindset???