Preseed is affecting my husband

Kykay • Finally Going to be a mama bear! 🐻

So My husband and I have been using preseed the way it is instructed. However, my husband hates it!!! He said it desensitizes him and it doesnt feel as good. Im he gets sweaty and frustrated and its just a over all bad experience for him. We are already baby dancing alot as it is so adding this to the mix sucks!

Has anyone ever had this happen to them?