My puppy got into my stepdads backpack for work (he works nights) and found an empty box of condoms , he brought it to the front door chewing on it ... he’s been married to my mom for 8 years thy don’t use protection as my mom had a hysterectomy and blablabla , so my mom brings it up to him , he freaks on her for accusing him of cheating which obviously was her first thought, he says “it’s for sometimes when I play with myself” which maybe okay it could be believable .. which is really giving him the benifit of the doubt but they were durex delayed lubricant dotted and rubbed his and her pleasure ... and was a completely empty pack ..

When my mom brought it up he freaked started screaming and yelling and saying he won’t be yelled at for this he did nothing wrong and how dare she accuse him . She said to fuck himself and leave .. she went outside t have a smoke and he hit it out of her mouth hitting her nose in the process saying to fuck herself ..

Now they’re not talking and it kinda seems like my moms gonna forget everything ... but I really think somethings going , I mean he won’t let her see his pay stubs ,gets his money deposited in a different account , spends all his

Money on god knows what and isn’t paying bills to the point things get shut off and then they have to scramble to get it turned back on when he makes over 3200 a month ...

Do y’all think he’s cheating ? I think she deserves better and desperately need advice to give her