9 days late at

Help I’m nine days late and scared to take a test me and my husband have been trying for a while now and nothing yet. I am peeing sooooo much and discharging white idk I’d that’s a sign are not someone please tell me. I am also experiencing tugging at my uterus again I’m not sure if that’s a thing but would me nice to know. Usually i would get cramping but nothing yet. Someone just drop some information so i know That I’m not the only one that is experiencing this thank you 🙏🏾