My man and I had a bad argument almost a week ago

He was very loving and reminded me constantly how much he loved me, etc

I’ll just say I was explosive during the argument which caused him to not talk to me for 3 days

We are good now and we have been communicating and it arguing BUT he’s still a little distant and I can tell. I’ve tried talking to him about it but he says he doesn’t feel distant that he feels the same. But I can definitely tell a difference.

I’m wondering if it’s because he’s waiting for me to explode again? I’m not one to explode.. and I told him it wouldn’t happen again

But I also don’t want there to not be a spark anymore and I want it to be how it was before.. what do y’all think?