So my little lady is 9 months now and my husband and I STILL can't enjoy sex. When we first got together we could do anything feisty no problem but once we had been trying to conceive for a while I started needing lubes but that helped and and we could still be extra frisky with no other problems. Well then I got pregnant and my libido sucked and suddenly everything hurt all the time. No matter which way we positioned ourselves and the lube even stopped helping. At this point we have gone over a year without good sex and it's been what feels like forever since I've been able to enjoy anything! It always feels like he is rubbing something but not my cervix instead it feels like something on my wall maybe? All the lube in the world isn't helping and to be honest I struggle to even try to get into the mood for sex because I already know its going to hurt. And now that I've had my daughter even his tounge starts to hurt pretty quickly into it no matter how gentle he is. I get so sore so fast. Everything is so much more sensitive than its ever been. Any help at all PLEASE for the sake of my marriage and my sanity. I don't currently have insurance (long story) so going to the dr isn't an option right now. 😩