Trying to see out of curiosity. I know each person has unique needs. There’s no right or wrong answer.

But my sex life seems to have slowed a lot. I have a fiancé, but he’s over 30 now, has a full-time job and takes online college classes for his master’s. So he’s never in the mood or always too tired. But we still manage 1-2 times a week.

I’m just hoping this isn’t permanent. Because him seeing me naked with no reaction because of familiarity is too much sometimes. I can see how being with someone a long time slows down the amount of times you have sex.

It used to be more about lust and spark, but not so much anymore... it’s all kind of familiar and just about getting a need out of the way.

If anyone has tips about keeping a spark going would be much appreciated.

p.s. he wants to start a family asap. So having a baby is also really going to slow things down.