It is my body, yes she is right. I am also a grown woman with whom can make a rational decision as to what to do with my own body. A decision to do WHAT IT WAS DESIGNED TO DO! It isn’t pain for no reason and I am proud of that fact I am able to feel that pain! Instead of priding women on the fact they are making informed decisions about their bodies we try to tell them it’s pointless and make them feel like they can’t handle what they are capable of handling!