So I’m 37 weeks pregnant with my son me and hubby haven’t talk to his mom in almost three years she brealy got to see our twin daughters maybe like once or twice because I refused to have her around let’s take it back to 2009 when I was pregnant with our first child that ended in a miscarriage 😞😞😞 she bluntly told me that’s what i deserved cause I didn’t need a child anyways smh somehow I forgave her and we started to have a bond we went to her house for a bbq witch her boyfriend and my hubby took off to the store I told her I was really tired so she decided to offer me meth yes ladies you read that right METH I don’t do drugs like that only smoked weed here and there so I was took outta my comfort zone and was waiting for my hubby to come back because I felt weird she begged me not to tell my husband that she offered me that and I told her wtf I tell him everything! I’m not hiding what you just did so when he came back she pulled him aside and told him her self he made her flush it and then we left ! After that we didn’t talk to her for almost three more years because she found out we were getting married and wanted to be there he insists that she came because you know that’s his mother ok cool long as she don’t say anything to me fast forward to Jan I’m pregnant with our twins and I get a call from his aunt telling me his mom is going around saying I got her son hooked on drugs and that we used fertility drugs to get pregnant with our twins and if it came down to it he would leave me and my girls for her ... I texted her and blew tf up on her and told her i didn’t want her around ever again and when my babies are born she is to stay away ... my mother is somewhat her friend so she called my mother crying asking if we can all have a sit down to try and fix things so not knowing this is what’s going on my mom called me and my husband over we go and they are both sitting st the table she try too act clueless and say she don’t understand why I don’t like her and why I’m always picking on her so Outta nowhere my husband tells her she needs to respect me and that if it came down to it he would never choose her over his kids and me we have been together for almost 11 years and through this whole time she’s been using drugs so she starts crying and from there we stopped talking to her now fast forward to my baby shower for our son he felt bad that we haven’t talk to her in almost three years so he invited her ok cool I want nothing to do with her outta respect for my husband i said hi and kept it pushing ... a few days ago she texted him saying she wants to know why we are like this to her and what are the problems idk why but it pissed me off to the max cause she’s always playing victim she knows why we are like this but refuse to take her blame tell me if I’m wrong for not wanting anything to do with her tell me what you ladies would do if you were in this predicament?? I know she’s only trying to come around cause I’m going to have my son on Halloween but that’s one Face ID prefer not to see she didn’t even raise my hubby his dad did because she choose drugs over being a mom .. I really started my hubby talking to her in 2007 when we first got together 🤦🏽‍♀️ btw his grandmother hates me because of all the lies his mother went back and told her 😭😭😭 didn’t even give me a chance remind you their white my husband is half white and Mexican they told his mom not to give him his fathers last name because his dad is Mexican I’m the first black girl he has ever dated and now we’re married his grandma has yet to meet our twins 🤦🏽‍♀️ because she doesn’t want to 😭😭😭😭 only black person in his family besides my girls 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️