Are you arguing with your partner more since baby arrived?

My husband is doing my head in! When our son was first born he was all “I have so much admiration for you”...cooking for me (he never cooks), cleaning (he never cleans) and just generally making sure I was happy and baby was happy...

8 weeks later he’s no where near as helpful and we are having arguments over it!

What pisses me off is that he can have a baby free day even though there is so much expressed milk around. He has time to himself, he seems to escape witching hour most evenings and he comes home late when I haven’t had time to do dinner because if witching hour so we end up having toast/cereal.

I wish he’d turn around and say “I’ll do all the feeds tonight” or “I’ll have him today, you go out and enjoy some pamper time/time with friends” but apparently I have to ask for this and can’t just hope he’ll do it as he’s not a mind reader?!

How does everyone else cope with their OH?! How do you get them to have more input without nagging?!