In 2010, towards the end of a relationship, my ex (now) was very much into anal. I never liked it, never wanted it. One night, while still together, he forced it. I screamed, crying begging him to stop, he wouldn't. I tried pushing him off, he was way stronger than me. After that, I was scared. I always trusted him, but things weren't adding up. He left to go to a bar one night, until that night I never thought about looking on his computer. What I found made me sick. He had pictures of his ex wife's bleeding anus, ( only know it was her, I contacted her after I found everything I found) not only that, I found that he had several Craigslist ads looking for anal sex with anyone, girls into it or transsexuals. Conversations about meeting up with people, explicit photos of him and transsexuals, and etc. I printed everything out, instead of yelling and screaming, I handed him a copy asking him to explain. He didn't say a word... His "revenge" came next. I told him it was over, I was sick! We just rented another house together, 2 months in is when I found this. Fast forward a week later: since he was unemployed, collecting from the military ( for medical leave ), I was staying in the house. He'd come in late, after getting drunk in the bar. I was sleeping in a separate room. There were nights he didn't come back which made me relived, however, one morning I was in bed, he came home and got into bed next to me. He stared rubbing against me, I immediately got up, and got into the shower. Didn't think what was to come. When I got out, he was still in the bedroom, I had a towel wrapped around me, collecting clothes bc I wasn't going to change in front of him. He grabbed my towel, ripping it off of me, and pushed me onto the bed. I landed on my back, trying to get up, he grabbed my arms and flipped me on my stomach and I began to fight, screaming! He held me down trying to lick my anus, I was able to get a arm free and grabbed his throat as hard as I could, pushing him away, telling him, get off me, you're done! He immediately went outside... He called the police!!! He knew what he did, but tried to get me into trouble! I didn't know what was going on when the police were talking to him. (Later I found out in court from the office who was there, the call was made that there were "drugs in the house and he wanted it out") I went out to the officer and told him I would like to speak to him about what just occurred, the officer told me, once he was done speaking with him, he'd talk to me... Never happened, the cops left and so did he. I immediately called 911, telling them that the officer left and never left me tell him about the sexual assault and simple assault that just happened. 4 officers responded back, noticing the bruising on my arms, the took me to the station for questioning.  Meanwhile, I find out he was at the court trying to get a restraining order against me!! His was denied and mine was granted. After that he was arrested. Fast forward again: court