Just came from fb and someone thinks it's wrong that her boy toy ended the relationship because she wanted to wait until they were married to have sex. Note that according to her he ended it respectfully and I believe they were dating all of a month.

Personally I think it's absolutely reasonable to end a relationship on those terms. In the traditional sense, I can't imagen getting into a legal contract just to have sex with someone and not knowing if you're sexually compatible beforehand. Even if you love them. Obviously that's not everyone's opinion and you do you but I agree with the bf.

Side question: If you said deal breaker, would you be more willing to continue if non-penetrating sexual contact was acceptable in the relationship?