Surely baby’s health and not lack of weight gain should be paramount?!?!

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I’m 16 weeks and still being sick - not as much as I was (hurrah) but most evenings. When people ask if I’m still being sick and I say yes, why do they reply ‘it’s good to help keep the baby weight off’ 😡

Why should it be good be being sick and not put On weight, and why do they think it’s a suitable response - the health of my baby is paramount not my lack of weight gain (I’m a U.K. size 12 btw).

Women and their weight are scrutinised so much in society and now it’s even into our pregnancies.

Sorry, angry and needed to vent 😤