How did you meet your special someone?

Currently single and looking but ok not sure how this whole meeting new people socialization thing goes. My last relationship was with a narcissistic and it left me hella wounded that I needed to take time to heal. I’m in a good place now but I don’t know how to go about getting to know someone new or even meeting someone new. Like how? What? When ? Where?

The starting over process is truly draining and if you’re in a city like mine, meeting someone is an extreme sport. So any suggestions? Dating sites? Or even advice ? I literally have no friends so this site has given me the opportunity to interact with others which I am very happy for