How long does it take for your body heal after a Miscarriage and D&C ?
Hi ! I recently lost my baby at almost 12 weeks . We got pregnant through IVF first time round . I got a subchorionic hemorrhage at 9 weeks and was bleeding so heavy ever since till the day I lost our baby . Baby was very healthy and had a strong heartbeat 💗 we think we lost our baby because of unprofessional medical practice when this nurse at the ER was pushing my belly so so hard like she is looking for a needle after she was done I was so much discomfort and seconds after I was bleeding so heavy and my bleeding started again when already was dried once I got to the ER .
Anyways , we are curious to know how long should we wait to try again ?
This time we will do IVF with frozen eggs 5 days , last time was with fresh eggs we transferred 2 embryos we successfully got implanted just one baby . This time we will 2 again .
I had D&C done and I resulted having to be hospitalized for several days due to lost blood and my blood levels being critical low and ended up having blood transfusions and ended up having now a chronic anemia due to all this I feel very weak can’t barely walk that long or move without getting dizzy, short of breath and feeling like I am going to passed out . The doctor told me it will take time for me to be back to normal and my levels to adjust will take 6 months !!!!! 😱😱😱🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I cant imagine and don’t have the time to wait this long I will be 35 years old and I feel now that I am running out of time to have a Baby .
DOES ANYBODY HAD GONE THROUGH SOMETHING SIMILAR LIKE THIS AND HAD SUCCESSFULLY HAD A BABY AFTER ALL THIS ? I lose faith sometimes and I can’t stop crying and feeling so emotional and I feel so empty inside ! IS THIS NORMAL AFTER HAVING A MISCARRIAGE?
What I can do to stay positive and to not think that I won’t be able to get pregnant again or I am going to have a miscarriage again ?
WHAT I CAN DO TO BOOST MY BLOOD FOR ANEMIA AND GET MY BODY RECOVERED FROM THE MISCARRIAGE AND PREPARED FOR CONCEPTION AGAIN ?
Do I supposed to be BLEEDING and having blood clots after D&C and for how long ? Does it supposed to be a heavy bleeding or like a period or less ? How I know everything got cleaned out my uterus ?
Please give me an advice
Thank you 😊 🙏🏽💖💗💕🌈