I am honestly torn now when I was so sure before getting pregnant. my husband and I have 2 boys and since the little one was born over 3 years ago I wanted the next baby to be a surprise to add that to our birthing experience. anyways I fast forward, I'm not going to lie I really really REALLY hope this baby is a girl. I just am torn If we should still wait or not. I'm starting to become scared that if we wait and at the birth have a boy I might be a little upset, of course will love whatever we have, just because I have my Hope's up. idk do you think if I'm hoping for a certain gender I should find out or am I hormonal and overreacting?