Delivery room

I’ve been pretty adamant about not having a lot of people in my delivery room. Really I only want my mom, aunt and then my spouse. Well when I told my spouse this he was very hurt. He was like “what about my mom or grandma” and I’m not comfortable at all with it. I mean I have a good relationship with his family and it’s nothing personal, it’s just I have to push a freaking watermelon out of my vagina and I don’t feel like we are that close. Anyways he’s super mad about it and I do feel bad but I’m not budging and idk how to make him feel better or understand.