Anyone else TTC struggling w impotence? Either your partner is not able to get or keep an erection, or if they do, they can’t climax.

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TTC really does put pressure on our partners. I sometimes forget that and need to remember its hard for them. Especially when BDing needs to be done in a time frame. Us girls just have to lie there..

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We were dealing w it before TTC, just got creative w having a fun sex life when things didn’t work. Now that we are TTC something has got to be addressed and I don’t know how.
I know some women whose husbands also had trouble specifically while TTC. 
It’s difficult because you want your partner to feel secure and loved and not pressured.  But you also want to get pregnant..

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There is definitely alot of pressure and I have noticed my husband not being as in the mood always. What was NEVER an issue for him turned into it one night. I was so surprised. We did it the next morning.no issue. But now it makes me worried like he is not attracted because he knows it could make a baby. He told me it felt like there was alot of pressure for him to just do a job and not to really make love.
I just try and never talk about it near when we are having sex and I always, even after the fertile window try and let him know he is still sexy. And it hasn't continued...but I am definitely worrief it could.

Anyone else TTC struggling w impotence? Either your partner is not able to get or keep an erection, or if they do, they can’t climax.

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