So i’ve been dating this boy for a little over a year and i’ve know him since kindergarten and i really love him and he loves me. we do a lot sexually, but we haven’t actually had sex. i’m very comfortable with him and he does not what i’m comfortable with and he makes me feel so safe and loved. he’s expressed that he wants to have sex, i want to too,but i’m afraid it’s going to be painful and also i don’t want to get pregnant obviously. i’ve done research about contraception but i can’t do much without a parent because i am just 16. any tips, advice or just wise thoughts about my situation and concerns, please help!!