My boyfriend of almost 5 years moved to Oregon a few months ago. I am planning on moving out there very soon, but I called him yesterday and he was very irritated with me and said he would call later. I never got a call, but I tried to call him a few times. The night before he was just fine and talked up a storm with me. Today I try to call him and I get no answer and eventually a text that says “Don’t feel like talking. Give me some space”. I don’t know if I did something. I sent him a goodnight text and said I loved him, so hopefully that was ok. Otherwise, I am freaking out. I don’t know if I should still plan on moving or if I’m overreacting. I just wish he would tell me what is going on instead of shutting me out.

Does anyone have any advice on this?? It’s greatly appreciated.