Hey guys do this is gonna be long so bear with me. My husband is in the military so we currently live in Texas. My husband is from California and I’m from Indiana so we don’t see our families that much. And the moms have met but our dads haven’t. I see mine more because my mom doesn’t work and I don’t work (I’m a SAHM) and my mom is on disability. My husband was deployed for 6 months the beginning of the year so I moved home. I really want our Dad’s to meet. My in laws want to visit in December my only request was for it not to be actually on Christmas I wanted a holiday alone with my husband and son because we missed so many during the deployment. Well my mil told us last night they’re coming the 23rd. Which honestly makes me so mad because she didn’t ask if it was okay. Would it be wrong to have my parents come for a couple days around Christmas? My sons first birthday is December 15th so I would throw his birthday party with pith sets of grandparents. And my husbands family would still get time alone. Plus we are going on a vacation with my husbands family in June.