Is it abusive to tell your spouse they have to lose weight, or you don't want to be with them?

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I was watching 90 Day Fiancé and the American woman Nicole is engaged to a man who lives in Morocco. Nicole is obese and her fiancé Azan keeps saying she has to go to the gym and eat better or he doesn't know if he can be happy in their marriage. He made fun of her because she gagged on a tomato because she refuses to eat vegetables. Do you think these types of statements and behavior is abusive?

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