Is it me?

So I posted this in the rude ass adult relationship group and got such irrelevant responses like “her house her rules” okay??? That’s not what I was asking. Or “she’s doesn’t want you fucking in her house” okay.. but his TWIN sister can? Shouldn’t she be more worried about her daughter? His twin is so immature I mean honestly she can’t hold a job can manage money can’t handle being an adult.