Hey ladies! So my in-laws are insistent on buying us a crib and dresser, I've made it clear to my mother in law I'd much rather prefer a changing table then just the toppers you can put on a dresser... Well she wants to buy the dresser topper not a changing table... My husband says its just something we'll have to get rid of when we don't need it, I said yea along with a lot of other things... But it's just frustrating I feel like I have no say so in this :( what do you all prefer and what would you do