Help me out ladies

Well let’s start this off, I’ve haven’t had sex for quite some time now. Let’s say three months maybe more, and for me sex helps me once my period cramps come along. ( I don’t do period sex it just feels really weird) but lately now my lover has been jerking off a lot lately cuz I know it hurts or blue balls come around when you haven’t done it for awhile. But for him he’s been jerking off like every day and I get him all hard and horney and the short ask for me is ( cuz we both don’t want to get me pregnant yet where not ready ) “ Did you do it last night ?? His answer is “yes,sorry.” And that’s when my moods go straight down and going to have to do a blow job. ( girls you know when you do a blow job a lot your mouth hurts yeah )

I’ve also told him days before saying “ I need a dick appointment like tomorrow or sometime this week please.” Of corse it’s “Yeah will do it tomorrow or sometime this week”. It gets my hopes up thinking yes am getting dick tomorrow or this week but like nope he keeps jerking off and it getting me upset now like I love sex and theirs other times where hey I would love sex before I have my period babe.

So yeah I haven’t had sex in awhile, period cramps hurt, I absolutely hate masterbating it doesn’t do anything to me.

Is thier anyway to like help or something or should I just like push it off and wait when he needs it ?? I really don’t know how to express the question in word form.