Bf said I’m no help .

So my bf already told me what he wants to do as a career we’re in college but he already told me what he’s working towards doing so I thought he was already set. Now he told me his mom told him he should go to coast guard and i said he don’t even get paid that much but I guess cause she was saying how he’ll have a better life blah blah. He names the benefits when I said that and made it look like he was interested so I said so go and now he’s saying I’m no help and how I make it hard to be in a peaceful relationship. He said because I didn’t tell him STAY FOR ME I am selfish and a fucked up person. He said I’m not helping him figure his life out and a whole bunch of shit and he’s painting me to be a bad gf because I didn’t tell him oh no don’t do whatever career u want Stay for me. Wtfff I’m always wrong in this relationship and I’m TIRED OF IT & he said I don’t love him