My husband is going to the doc to see if getting on disability is an option due to severe migraines and depression (the migraines are debilitating but not all the time) when they do hit, he's bed ridden and off work for days which then feeds into his depression and looses his jobs. Logically speaking it's probly the best thing to do. But part of me is terrified. All the what ifs. I have to get up and go to work every day. He'd be home in his butt all day. Although swears to keep up house work etc. What if he gets bored or emasculated and cheats? All this stupid stuff keeps going through my head. Any body have any experience in this area?