I’m getting married in May. Live with my man, have for a year. I have to constantly say things like “hey, that tree that fell down in the yard from the storm a month ago, the one you step over every day to feed the dogs is still there” or “you didn’t clean your dick hair off the toilet when you ‘cleaned’ the bathroom”. I feel like I’m forced to be his brain and it’s so frustrating. When I try to tough love say “I don’t want to be your brain” he tells me I’m insulting him. He’s an intelligent man, but he’s also a fucking child. Please help me.