Should I still be with my boyfriend if he don’t always make time for me or meet my needs or love me how I need to be loved and doesn’t always make me happy?

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He does sometimes or how he thinks of feels but it don’t do everything for me so what’s the point of being with him then? I sometimes ask myself other times I’m happy to be with him or I’m just happy and feel it’s fine

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You answered your own question.

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Do you make time for your boyfriend? Meet his needs? Love him how he needs to be loved? 
Sometimes in a relationship inputting the same things you want (e.g. you want to see him 2 times a week so you make sure you see him those 2 times) does not necessarily mean that he will also want those things (such as meeting 2 times a week). Sometimes just meeting up once is fine for him. It’s about making a compromise. 
The best relationships have ‘complementary of needs’. Not the same needs. But something along the lines of your boyfriend can give you what you need at no extra cost to him. And in return, you can give him the needs he wants in a way in which he doesn’t feel under benefitted, but you also don’t feel like you’re putting more in to the relationship. 
If this has helped you make up your mind then great (are your needs compatible?) but just remember there are two people in a relationship not just you. You might not be happy at the moment because he’s not giving you what you want, but are you giving him what he wants? Have you ever asked him what he wants? I’d talk to him, ask him what he wants from a relationship, and also your concerns about what you would like too. I hope this helps.

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Nobody is perfect. I mean I would think trying to talk to him and tell him what you need would help.

Should I still be with my boyfriend if he don’t always make time for me or meet my needs or love me how I need to be loved and doesn’t always make me happy?

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