Little history I’m 27 I’ve got one angle baby, a daughter who’s almost 8 and a son who’s almost 2.5. It was hell trying to conceive my son took us 4 years before it happened and my daughter was conceived right after my miscarriage so I was terrified the whole pregnancy.

I can remember being nervous/ scared though out the 2 full term pregnancies and hubby wants to try for another baby. I love baby cuddles I mean who don’t but I am finding myself very nervous to start trying for another baby.

Hubby is a work aholic and I just found a job I love after finishing college while I was pregnant with my son and staying home for 2 years with him.

I don’t want to have to give up my job because hubby is always working. I don’t want to sound bad I appreciate how hard he works I truly do but I don’t want to have to be putting 3 kids to bed alone at night or doing dinner with 3 kids and myself all the time. It sucks now having to do it with my son and daughter and I feel having a 3rd child will make it harder emotionally.

Am I being irrational or is this something normal I could be feeling? How Should I talk to hubby about what I’m feeling? I don’t want him to feel like I don’t want another baby I’d love to have one idk I’m just scared. Thanks for listening to my ramble.