I was severely insecure before I was pregnant, I’ve always been underweight and have lost 12kg since becoming pregnant due to sickness.

Today he decided to tell me ‘you’re definitely not 10/10 anymore are you’

He’s spent weeks calling me fat saying I look like Winnie the Pooh or any fat creature/person that comes on the tv and tries passing it off as a joke but he knows my past.

I immediately start crying and asked him what he meant his reply?

‘Well if you wanted to stay attractive why did you get pregnant, there’s other better looking skinny girls that’s why you feel insecure, you’re pregnant so don’t let it worry you, it’s just you’re not fit anymore really’

Call it hormones I don’t know but this has literally shot a hole in my chest I can’t stop crying after years of eating disorders and self harm he thinks now is a good time when I finally stopped all that to bring this up?!

Now hes saying he’s done and said nothing wrong and I need to get over it he was just being honest 😔

Am I overreacting because of hormones 😂

He’s been arrested twice for domestic abuse/coercive behaviour so it’s not exactly new territory but now I’m pregnant it hurts so much more 💔😭