Why am I so jealous?

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My bf and I have been dating 2 years now. He has 2 daughters but i'm soooooo jealous of his youngest and his baby mama. I try so hard not to have any kind of neg feelings over his daughter but I think I feel like that because of the baby mama. I have never met her but even thought of her makes me so upset. Why why why

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You need to grow up.

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It’s unhealthy to be jealous of a little girl.

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When ur jealous of your mans daughter regardless of age you seriously need to step the fuck back, his daughter will always come before you and he will respect his “baby mama” because they both brought their child into the world. Grow up.

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Listen, I have a partner who has two children. They are now 9+10 and when I met him they were 3+4. I don’t understand your jealousy towards the child, please don’t be jealous of a child, it’s difficult to take on someone elsss children but it’s not the little ones fault... if anything you should love her because she is a part of him. I understand the jelousy towards the ‘baby mama’... it was very hard for me when I first met my partner as I was only 18 ... I had never been around children and didn’t understand the dynamics of why they had to contact each other constantly, always calling each other until I realised... the children. The kids are the reason. They’re both great parents and luckily my partners ex has made me the 4th parent and we are now all really close (her, her husband, me and my partner) and have a fab relationship. Me and her go out for dinner, talk daily about the kids and other stuff, because we are mature adults and once you reach that stage it’s amazing! Prehaps you could try reaching out to the ‘baby mama’ and asking her out for a coffee or lunch just you guys? Remember, it’s for the children at the end of the day.. a mature approach is what is needed! ❤️

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Oh no time for you to do these little girls a favor and pack you stuff and leave. Iv seen too many cases of people like you hurting children because they are jealous of them.

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I just want to read these comments later

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I have 2 kids, and I say it right from the beginning of a new relationship, “you will NEVER be number one. And my ex and I always talk regarding the children”. I love my bf because he gets it... now, if you’re bothered that he puts his daughter before you, there’s something very wrong.

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I’m not sure why u would be jealous of the little girl but I feel like it’s a lot missing from this story which would explain the jealousy of the baby mama.   
How old is the baby? Do u think he’s still sleeping with the mother? Why have it’s been 2 yrs & u still haven’t met her? Do she even know about you? Do your bf put the baby mother before you? It’s kind of weird to be jealous of someone u never met.

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Either grow up or do those girls a favour and leave.

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Just time to grow up, like someone else said and really ask yourself, really analyze situation and look deep within yourself and see what about a child and her mama makes you jealous. It’s normal to feel jealous , you just have to -take a minute, breath- figure out why

Why am I so jealous?

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