Inconsiderate in laws

Bonnie

I just had my baby a few weeks ago. I get so aggravated when my in laws come over without calling. I told my husband about it and he got upset and we argued. BUT thing is, I have no help with our newborn. So when I want to sleep I should be able to and people should respect that, right? And honestly, sometimes...I just do not want to be bothered. Am I wrong? How should I handle this situation?